{"id":877,"date":"2013-11-08T09:29:39","date_gmt":"2013-11-08T14:29:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.desiringgodchurch.org\/web\/?p=877"},"modified":"2013-11-08T09:29:39","modified_gmt":"2013-11-08T14:29:39","slug":"be-the-smile-of-god-to-your-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.desiringgodchurch.org\/web\/2013\/11\/08\/be-the-smile-of-god-to-your-children\/","title":{"rendered":"Be the Smile of God to Your Children"},"content":{"rendered":"

From Joe Rigney on the Desiring God blog<\/a>:<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a squirmy one, he is. If I don\u2019t watch him, he\u2019ll wriggle off the bed. But he doesn\u2019t want to. He\u2019s enjoying the tickle fight too much. I can\u2019t blame him. Those giggles make this father\u2019s heart want to leap out of my chest. I wonder how long this laugh will last.<\/p>\n

Reflect on the tickle fight with me. See the layers of reality at work. . . .<\/p>\n

On the surface: an adult male and a one-year-old of the species, smiles, laughter, darting fingers, kicking legs, squeals, deep breaths, rapid kisses on the neck, raspberries on the belly, and did I mention the laughter?<\/p>\n

Beneath the surface: emotional bonding, fatherly affection, wide-eyed childhood delight. A contribution to the child\u2019s sense of safety and security in the world. Perhaps he\u2019ll be \u201cwell-adjusted\u201d (or at least better adjusted). This will, no doubt, help him on his standardized tests.<\/p>\n

Beneath and in and through it all, Trinitarian fullness is being extended. The Joy that made the mountains is concentrated in my home. Fatherly delight is at the heart of reality. \u201cThis is my beloved Son, with whom I am well-pleased.\u201d It plays on a looping tape in the back of my mind. Thus sayeth the Lord to his Son. Thus sayeth the Lord to all of his sons that are in the Son. . . .<\/p>\n

This is the pitch of fatherhood. This is the melody line of motherhood. This ought to be the dominant note in the familial symphony. Delight, Pleasure, Joy. This tickle fight is high theology. . . .<\/p>\n

This is our fundamental calling as parents \u2014 to be the smile of God to our children. We are charged by God to bring our children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. God himself has commanded us to communicate to our children what he is like. And God is fundamentally a Happy Father, a Well-Pleased Parent. And just as the Father communicates his delight in his Son through his words and deeds and demeanor and presence, so also should we.<\/p>\n

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